The Silent Crisis: Navigating the Hidden Lives of Today’s Youth....

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Context: I watched a video of 15 year old girl, shot her mother to death (Step father escaped with shoulder wounds and overpowered her!) in Missisippi, USA. The mother found out that her daughter lived a secret life, that of a extensive drug user. The girl wanted to eliminate her mother and step father!!! While guns are not used in India, with all habits, way of life all crossing national boundaries rapidly, in this information age/world,  how long before such Incidents happen here! I wonder, So the post! 

In recent years, the lives of youngsters, particularly those under 20, have become more complicated than ever. Bullying in schools, recreational stealing, emotional disconnection from family, and a growing reliance on technology for comfort have led to an alarming rise in mental health issues and, tragically, instances of suicide. The pressures they face from peers, society, and even themselves often go unnoticed by parents, teachers, and society at large.

What’s even more concerning is the rise in confiscated contraband—drugs, cigarettes, condoms, and even pregnancy prevention pills—during school bag searches, which is becoming alarmingly common in metro cities like Mumbai, Delhi, and Bangalore. How did we reach this point? More importantly, what can be done to safeguard our youth from these growing threats?

How Did We Get Here?

When I was growing up in the 1970s, issues like rampant bullying, stealing, and emotional disconnection were almost unheard of. Schools were relatively safe spaces, and family structures were more cohesive. So what changed?

There are several factors that have contributed to the erosion of these values over time:

1. Technology and Social Media Explosion: The rise of smartphones and social media has created a digital divide between children and their families. Social interactions that once took place in person are now happening online, often without any parental oversight. This has led to issues like cyberbullying and a disconnection from real-world relationships.

2. Increased Academic and Social Pressure: With the heightened focus on academic success and the fierce competition for college admissions and jobs, young people today are under more pressure than ever. This stress often manifests in unhealthy ways—bullying, self-isolation, or worse.

3. Erosion of Community and Cultural Values: In the past, strong community ties, family values, and cultural norms acted as buffers against many harmful behaviors. As families become more nuclear and both parents increasingly work outside the home, children are left to navigate these challenges on their own, leading to a lack of supervision and guidance.

4. Peer Influence and Stereotypes: The exposure to global trends and stereotypes, especially through media and entertainment, has normalized behaviors that were once seen as taboo. Drug use, premarital sex, and rebellious attitudes are now portrayed as acceptable or even desirable in popular culture, making it easier for youngsters to fall into harmful patterns.

These changes, while gradual, have dramatically altered the landscape in which today’s youth are growing up.

Way Forward:

1. Open and Non-Judgmental Communication

One of the most critical things parents can do is create an environment where their children feel safe enough to share their problems. However, this is easier said than done. In many Indian households, discussions about drugs, sex, or mental health are still taboo. Parents shy away from these conversations, assuming their children would never be involved in such matters. The unfortunate reality is that many children do experience these challenges but remain silent due to fear of judgment.

Example: Take the case of Aarav (name changed), a 16-year-old from Delhi who was caught smoking marijuana with his friends. His parents, who considered themselves liberal, were shocked. They later realized that despite having open conversations at home, they hadn’t created an environment where Aarav felt comfortable discussing the peer pressure he faced. Aarav later admitted that he wished he could have spoken to his parents before things escalated.

2. Setting Boundaries with Technology

In a world dominated by social media, it’s easy for youngsters to become addicted to their devices. Instead of banning phones outright, which can lead to rebellion, parents should work to set healthy boundaries. This could mean implementing screen time limits or creating tech-free zones in the house—perhaps during meals or before bedtime.

Example: In Bangalore, one school adopted a "digital detox" day where students were encouraged to avoid gadgets for 24 hours. Students initially resisted but eventually admitted they felt more relaxed and connected to their families without the constant digital noise. Parents noticed their children engaging in more meaningful conversations and sleeping better as a result of reduced screen exposure.

3. Addressing Mental Health Early

Mental health in India is still a stigmatized subject, especially for the younger generation. Many schools are slowly adopting counseling services, but much more needs to be done to normalize discussions about stress, anxiety, and depression.

Example : In a Mumbai school, after the unfortunate suicide of a student who had been bullied, the school introduced regular mental health workshops. These sessions aimed to teach students how to manage stress, identify signs of depression in themselves and others, and encourage them to seek help when needed. Schools across India can adopt similar programs to equip students with tools to handle emotional challenges before they spiral out of control.

4. Teaching Financial Literacy and Responsibility

When children start stealing from home or others, it’s often due to a lack of financial understanding or the need for quick gratification. Teaching them about money early on can instill a sense of responsibility and curb impulsive spending behavior.

Example: A family in Hyderabad decided to give their teenage daughter a monthly allowance and tasked her with budgeting her own expenses. By the end of six months, she learned how to manage her money responsibly, and the urge to “steal” for extra cash disappeared. Schools and parents can partner to teach children about the value of money and the consequences of theft.

5. Building Strong Community Support Systems

Communities, including schools, religious organizations, and local groups, need to play a stronger role in supporting young people. Many parents feel isolated in their struggles, not realizing that other families are facing the same issues. Regular parental support groups, where parents can share their experiences and seek advice, could be a great help.

Example: In Chennai, a group of parents came together to form a local "parenting circle" where they meet once a month to discuss challenges related to parenting teenagers. Over time, this group has become a pillar of support, offering practical advice and emotional encouragement.

6. Addressing Peer Pressure and Drug Use

Peer pressure is a significant contributor to drug and alcohol use among teenagers. Schools must take an active role in educating students about the dangers of drugs and equipping them with strategies to say "no."

Example : After a spate of drug-related incidents in a prominent Mumbai school, the administration invited former drug users to share their stories with students. This honest dialogue opened the eyes of many students, and the school saw a sharp decline in drug-related incidents afterward. Parents can follow up at home by reinforcing these lessons, showing interest in their children’s social lives, and ensuring they are making the right choices.

7. Parental Involvement Without Micromanaging

It’s a tricky balance—being involved without micromanaging. Children often lead secret lives when they feel smothered or overprotected. Giving them a bit of freedom while maintaining oversight is essential.

Example: In Ahmedabad, a father realized his constant snooping into his 14-year-old son’s phone was pushing him further away. After discussing the issue with a counselor, he decided to give his son more space while still staying engaged in his school activities and hobbies. Within months, their relationship improved, and the son started opening up more.

8. Early Detection of Problematic Behavior

Sometimes the signs of trouble are subtle—mood swings, withdrawal from family, or a sudden drop in school performance. Parents should be attuned to these changes and address them early before they escalate.

Example : A mother in Kolkata noticed her usually talkative daughter had become quiet and withdrawn. Rather than dismissing it as teenage moodiness, she sought the help of a school counselor, who discovered the girl was being bullied at school. Early intervention prevented the situation from worsening and helped the daughter regain her confidence.

9. Parental Education on Modern Challenges

Parents may not be fully aware of the modern challenges their children face, including cyberbullying, sexting, or the influence of social media influencers. Schools and organizations must help educate parents on these evolving issues so they can better guide their children.

Example : A parent-teacher association in Gurgaon held workshops to educate parents on the darker side of social media, including cyberbullying and online predators. Many parents left the session shocked, having previously believed their children were safe because they were at home. Armed with this knowledge, they now keep a closer eye on their children’s online activity.

10. Encouraging Hobbies and Positive Reinforcement

Idle hands can lead to trouble. Encouraging youngsters to pursue hobbies, sports, or creative outlets can help them focus their energy on positive activities. Recognizing and rewarding their achievements, both big and small, helps build self-esteem and keeps them motivated.

Example : A teenager in Pune with a budding interest in photography was encouraged by her parents to pursue this passion. They helped her set up an Instagram page to showcase her work. Her newfound hobby not only kept her away from negative influences but also boosted her confidence as she started getting recognition for her talents.

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Conclusion

The challenges today’s youth face are complex and multifaceted. Parents, educators, and society must work together to provide the support, resources, and guidance they need to navigate these difficult years. It’s easy to dismiss these issues as “just a phase,” but in reality, they can have long-lasting impacts. We must act now to prevent the silent crisis that is engulfing our young generation, one conversation and one positive action at a time.

Karthik

20th Sep 2024, 10am. 

The Seasoned Talent Dilemma: Why Experienced Professionals Struggle to Get Hired and What Can Be Done About It

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An Apt practical topic for the 550th blog!

In recent years, I've been noticing a troubling trend on social media—seasoned professionals, many with 15 to 30 years of experience, are finding it increasingly difficult to secure jobs after being laid off. These are individuals who’ve spent their careers building expertise, managing teams, and delivering results. Yet, after attending countless interviews and enduring multiple rounds of questions, they are met with eerie silence or are politely informed that they "do not meet the criteria."

I can’t help but wonder, what's really going on here? Why is it that companies are reluctant to hire experienced professionals? It’s a frustrating paradox—on one hand, organizations crave talent with proven track records, but on the other hand, seasoned professionals are often seen as a “no-go” for reasons ranging from salary fit to concerns over the scope of responsibility. Many companies fear that experienced candidates might reject offers that come with a significant pay cut or scaled-back benefits. Why waste time on both sides if seasoned talent isn’t really what they’re after?

The result is a growing pool of professionals, often at the peak of their capabilities, facing long, demoralizing job searches. It’s a stalemate, but it doesn’t have to be.

Why Companies Hesitate

In speaking with colleagues and reflecting on my own experience, it’s become clear that companies often hesitate to hire seasoned professionals for three main reasons:

1. Salary Expectations: There’s a perception that experienced professionals will demand higher compensation. Companies, under cost pressures, sometimes view them as "expensive hires."

2. Responsibility Fit: Many organizations assume that a seasoned employee won't be satisfied with less responsibility or a lateral move and fear they won’t stay for long.

3. Fear of Offer Rejection: HR teams may feel that if they extend a low offer, the candidate will reject it, wasting time and resources.

I’ve seen these dynamics play out firsthand in my own career. When companies are unwilling to offer a fair wage or responsibilities in line with the experience of the individual, it creates a disconnect that leaves both parties dissatisfied.

What Can Companies Do?

This stalemate isn't inevitable. There are concrete steps companies can take to better engage with seasoned talent:

1. Be Transparent from the Start: If budget constraints limit the offer, companies should be upfront about it early in the process. Don't lead seasoned candidates through multiple interview rounds only to disappoint with a lowball offer at the end.

2. Offer Flexibility: Consider part-time roles, consultancy positions, or project-based engagements. Many experienced professionals would appreciate flexible working conditions over compensation or traditional roles.

3. Focus on Mentorship and Knowledge Transfer: Seasoned professionals bring invaluable experience that younger teams could benefit from. Create opportunities for mentorship, training, and leadership development.

4. Reframe Value: Rather than seeing senior hires as an expensive liability, view them as investments. Their ability to solve problems quickly and their accumulated wisdom can save organizations money in the long run.

What Can Seasoned Employees Do?

For those of us with decades of experience under our belts, adapting to the shifting employment landscape is key. It’s frustrating, no doubt, but here are some strategies to improve our chances of being hired:

1. Update Your Skills: While experience is valuable, it must be coupled with relevance. Learn new technologies, embrace modern business practices, and stay on top of industry trends. I, too, have invested time in continuous learning, even after years in the field.

2. Be Willing to Pivot: Sometimes the perfect role isn’t available, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t an opportunity. Consider consulting, part-time work, or even roles in a different industry where your skill set is transferable.

3. Highlight Flexibility: Employers may fear seasoned professionals are set in their ways. During interviews, emphasize your openness to new ideas, willingness to take on diverse responsibilities, and the ability to work within different pay structures.

4. Network Proactively: You’ve likely spent years building connections—now is the time to leverage them. Attend industry events, engage in online discussions, and reach out to former colleagues. Many seasoned professionals, myself included, have seen opportunities come not from job boards, but from personal connections.

Practical Example: Transitioning with Grace

Take the story of a former colleague of mine. After 25 years in the EHS field, he was laid off from his leadership role during a restructuring. It took him nearly a year to find another job, despite being highly qualified. What worked for him, eventually, was positioning himself as a mentor and problem-solver, rather than insisting on a top-tier salary or title. He accepted a consulting role, which later turned into a permanent position. Flexibility and adaptability are key in this new reality.

Another example is from my own career. During the 2007-2009 financial crisis, when our business was down by 74%, I experienced furloughs and zero travel for months. Instead of focusing on what was lost, I adapted, using alternate means to deliver results and sustain my career. It was tough, but survival in these situations requires more than just skill—it demands a shift in mindset. In 2012 when I decided to quit corporate career, it was a very easy decision. 

Global Perspective

Globally, the employment market has been reshaped by technological advancements, economic shifts, and the rise of the gig economy. In developed countries like the U.S., Europe, and even parts of Asia, companies have moved towards more lean operations and a preference for younger, cheaper talent. Seasoned professionals, particularly in industries like manufacturing, traditional engineering, or even finance, are finding themselves at a crossroads because of the rapid pace of change.

1. Technological Disruption: Many seasoned employees face the challenge of staying updated with new technologies. Industries are automating, and digital skills are often a prerequisite for roles that may not have required them a decade ago. I have seen older professionals struggle with cloud computing, advanced data analytics, and AI-driven decision-making, which can put them at a disadvantage. Upskilling, especially in relevant technology, is now non-negotiable.

2. Gig Economy: The rise of freelance and contract work, especially in countries like the U.S., means companies are often more willing to hire freelancers for project-based work. This is both an opportunity and a challenge for seasoned professionals who may not be familiar with how to market themselves as independent consultants. Adapting to this model requires a change in mindset and the ability to sell yourself as a valuable resource on a per-project basis.

Indian Perspective

In India, the situation is unique because of its demographics and economy. Here’s what stands out:

1. Younger Workforce: India’s working-age population is predominantly young, and companies tend to hire fresh graduates or mid-level employees who come at a fraction of the cost of experienced professionals. This creates a sense of being priced out of the market for seasoned employees. However, seasoned professionals who have leadership, process-driven roles, or specialized knowledge (e.g., EHS, Safety, Regulatory, etc.) can still be invaluable to companies—especially when those industries mature.

2. Perception of Obsolescence: In India, companies often equate seniority with rigidity. I’ve noticed that many organizations assume seasoned professionals are resistant to change or unable to adapt to newer business models, technologies, or agile working environments. This is a major obstacle. Experienced professionals must proactively showcase adaptability and a willingness to work with younger teams.

3. Industry-Specific Challenges: In sectors like IT or manufacturing, where India has a strong global presence, competition for senior roles is fierce, often driven by cost savings. But industries like infrastructure, logistics, or agriculture-related sectors—where India is seeing growth—offer opportunities for seasoned employees to bring their process expertise and long-term industry knowledge.

4. Local Example: I recently read about an ex-banker who struggled to find employment after his company downsized. Eventually, he found success by transitioning into the education sector as a mentor and trainer for young financial professionals. His years of experience were invaluable in shaping the next generation. Such examples show that professionals may have to look beyond their comfort zone and target adjacent sectors where their expertise is transferable.

Practical Advice for Seasoned Employees (Indian Context)

1. Tailor Expectations: Many Indian companies are hesitant to offer senior roles at high pay packages, especially in mid-tier firms. It’s important to align salary expectations with market realities. Instead of focusing purely on compensation, emphasize the value you can bring in terms of mentoring and business strategy.

2. Leverage Niche Expertise: In India, niche sectors like Process Safety, Regulatory Affairs, or even Corporate Governance are fields where experience is indispensable. Seek out roles where your depth of knowledge can solve problems that younger candidates simply haven’t faced yet.

3. Mentorship and Consultancy: The consultancy model is growing rapidly, especially in India’s startup ecosystem. Many seasoned professionals, instead of vying for full-time positions, have become independent consultants or joined accelerators where they can help mentor younger companies while maintaining flexibility. This also helps bypass the age-related biases that sometimes exist in full-time hiring.

Practical Advice for Companies

1. Apprenticeship Model for Seasoned Employees: Companies can innovate by introducing a sort of reverse apprenticeship, where senior employees take on part-time mentorship roles. This allows them to pass on knowledge to younger teams, while not demanding a full-time commitment.

2. Open Discussions on Role Fit and Compensation: Instead of assuming a seasoned employee will expect a certain salary, companies should create an open dialogue early in the interview process. Many experienced professionals are willing to trade some level of compensation for flexibility, autonomy, or a role that allows them to have an impact.

3. Cross-Functional Expertise: Encourage seasoned employees to take on cross-functional or interdepartmental roles. Their experience in navigating complex systems and organizations is often underappreciated, and using them to improve overall company efficiencies could be highly beneficial.

Personal Touch and Reflection

Reflecting on my own career, I can relate to the difficulty of transitioning from corporate life to independent consulting. When I left the corporate world to start my consulting business after 27 years, I wasn’t fully prepared for how much the job market had changed. What worked for me was pivoting to a consultancy role that allowed me to use my specialized expertise in EHS. But it didn’t happen overnight—I had to market myself differently, build a network, and prove that I could deliver results outside of a full-time position.

For many seasoned professionals, the key is resilience and adaptability. As frustrating as the process may be, shifting focus to sectors that value experience, upskilling, and being open to alternative work models will keep seasoned professionals competitive in today’s job market.

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In conclusion, the current employment landscape for seasoned professionals is tough, but it’s not hopeless. By reframing expectations, both companies and job seekers can move beyond the stalemate. After all, experience is more than just years on a resume—it's the hard-won wisdom that can drive businesses forward if given the chance.

What do you think? Any comments?
Karthik.

This blog post was triggered my good friend's struggle (An Electrical Engineer) for past 13 months to find a job (15 years of experience. Ultimately he got an offer this week, in an ASEAN nation). 

19th Sep 2024. (Boy one year since my hospitalisation for Bronchal infection, time flies!). 

11am.

The Power of Saying NO: Protecting Your Sanity at Work (Specially for those below 30).

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I read with deep sadness and frustration about the tragic death of a 26-year-old woman working at EY India in Pune. Not even a year into her job, she succumbed to the crushing weight of work stress. Unfortunately, this isn’t an isolated incident. I remember reading last year about a highly qualified McKinsey, consultant, a graduate of IIT/IIM, who ended his life by jumping from the 9th floor, driven by unbearable work pressure. These stories haunt me because they’re not anomalies but part of a disturbing trend, especially in India and across other developing nations.

I can’t help but wonder how many such cases go unnoticed—100, maybe more? And what's worse is that these young people, with promising futures, are driven to such extremes because they feel the crushing expectation of giving everything to their jobs. The sad reality is that as companies try to do more with fewer people, shrinking profit margins, and fierce competition, they end up squeezing employees dry, down to their bones.

Why do we let it get this far?
In many Asian cultures, especially in India, we often treat our jobs like pre-spouses—something we must wed and devote ourselves to, no matter the cost. The result is burnout. With the rise of nuclear families and job relocations taking young professionals far away from their support systems—mom, dad, and even lifelong friends—they are left to manage life on their own. This, combined with high expectations, creates an impossible load to bear. India joined this bandwagon in the past 25 years or so. 

Today's generation, too, seems to have lower resilience in dealing with such intense demands. They often hesitate to ask for help, afraid of being perceived as weak. In a society that worships success, many forget that failure is a crucial part of the journey, something no one ever told them while growing up.

So, what can a young professional under 30 do to maintain both sanity and success at work?
First and foremost—learn to say NO. And sometimes, say it loudly and unapologetically. When I look back at my own career, I recall instances where I had to throw down some explicit language—whether it was an F-bomb or a well-timed insult—to get my point across. And guess what? My results never suffered because I knew when to push back, and that pushback was necessary. In fact, there’s a certain power in being able to stand up for yourself, even if it means you have to be a bit of a "thug" at work. If you don't, the job will eventually drain the life out of you.

I’ve witnessed this reality firsthand in my own family. My daughter, who worked at a BIG 4 @ India here in Bangalore, and had a similar experience to the tragic stories I’ve read about. The pressure was relentless, and the culture of squeezing employees for every ounce of energy was in full force. Fortunately, she had us as her support system, but not every young professional is as lucky. Even in this high-stress environment, she had a direct manager who was considerate and helped her get through the toughest periods with his bit. However, the partners? Well, they were a horror show, nothing short of corporate thuggery, with a devil may care attitude.

But there’s a silver lining in my daughter's story—sometimes, being in a bad team or environment gives you the clarity to realize that you deserve better. It forces you to look outside for new opportunities, which is exactly what Radha did a couple of years later. (Oh yes She was harrassed by a couple of Bastad managers in letting her go upon serving separation letter!) She found a healthier environment in the new job, where she could thrive and later moved to USA. It wasn’t an easy path, but saying NO to a toxic culture and looking for better opportunities paid off in the end. That is how work culture is in India since evil evolution of Y2K. ( I will say India's 9/11 Moment). 

What organizations can do
Companies need to recognize that their employees are human beings, not cogs in a profit-making machine. Indian and Asian workplaces tend to foster a culture where long hours are worn like a badge of honor. This has to stop. Instead, companies should encourage healthier work habits, promote resilience-building, and normalize asking for help.

• Create Boundaries: Young professionals should be encouraged to set and maintain boundaries. Leaders must understand that productivity doesn’t correlate with long hours but with well-rested, focused minds.

• Foster a Culture of "Help": There should be no shame in seeking assistance. This could mean better access to mental health support, mentorship, or simply creating an environment where asking questions isn’t seen as a weakness.

• Teach Resilience: We need to help the younger generation develop a healthier relationship with failure. If failure is treated as a learning experience, rather than an end, young professionals will be able to manage stress better.

At the end of the day, success is important, but it should not come at the cost of your health, sanity, or life. Saying "No" isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that you value yourself and your future.

Let me know what do you think?
Karthik.

18th Sep 2024. 1pm. 

Navigating the Knowledge Gap: When You Know More Than Your Boss.

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In today’s fast-evolving workplaces, it’s common for employees in their 20s, 30s, and 40s to enter industries with a far higher level of proficiency than their managers. With access to a wealth of information, advanced training, and a competitive drive to constantly upskill, this generation has been blessed with opportunities to enhance their knowledge and skills at a rapid pace.

However, this can create a unique and sometimes uncomfortable dynamic: what do you do when you know more than your boss?

The New Age of Competency

We are in an era where information is accessible at our fingertips, and skills are being developed in real-time. Younger employees are walking into organizations with cutting-edge knowledge, an openness to new ideas, and a relentless drive to innovate. Naturally, this can put them at odds with older generations of managers, who may have years of experience but might not be as current with the latest advancements.

This generation also doesn't hesitate to voice opinions, whether in person or on social media, and they challenge outdated norms. But the real challenge is navigating this knowledge gap without disrupting the balance between leadership and direct reports.

The Mutual Benefit: A Personal Example

I have firsthand experience navigating this dynamic during my career between 1999-2012, when I worked in the niche domain of Safety, Health, and Environment (SHE) on a multi countries implementation mission. I was often expected to be more knowledgeable than my manager(s) due to the specialized nature of my expertise. However, this was never a source of conflict. On the contrary, my manager saw me as a resource to get things done. We coordinated flawlessly, delivering results time and again, which led to both of us prospering enormously. It was always "WE", Oh yes,!! delivering results, first time, beyond expectation is key for me thus to my manager.

I regularly came up with ideas, but rather than pushing them myself, I let my manager get them passed and executed. This allowed both of us to succeed—my expertise informed the projects, and their experience and leadership ensured they were implemented effectively. This is how it should work. When both sides play to their strengths, everyone wins. Also true was when we expanded our EHS domain, (Business Continuity, Product Stewardship, Energy Sustainability management),  I was leading folks who were much smarter, knowledgable, hands on, in their area of expertise, So I allowed them to work on projects (with key performance indicators explained to me and aligned to busines goals), rest is their expertise to execute. 

What Managers Can Learn

Managers don’t need to panic unless they are totally out of sync with their domain or unwilling to adapt. Leadership is not just about having the most technical knowledge—it’s about guiding, mentoring, and managing teams effectively. Even if a manager isn’t the most knowledgeable in a technical sense, their ability to navigate corporate structures, build relationships, and manage resources is invaluable.

In many cases, management views the boss’s role as one of trust and experience rather than raw technical skill. A good manager knows how to leverage the expertise of their direct reports, giving them the autonomy to perform while taking responsibility for ensuring overall team success.

Example: A senior quality engineer in a manufacturing firm may come up with new ways to streamline inspection processes. The manager may not understand every technical detail but knows how to get buy-in from upper management and ensure the change is implemented smoothly. By trusting their direct report’s expertise, the manager earns respect, and the team achieves success.

What Employees Should Understand

On the flip side, employees need to realize that unless something dramatic happens, their boss isn’t going anywhere. Viewing your boss as a barrier can cause unnecessary friction. Instead, see them as a facilitator. Your manager has the authority and influence to push your ideas forward, so work with them, not against them.

It's also essential to recognize the experience and wisdom your boss brings to the table. While you may have the technical know-how, your manager likely has years of valuable lessons learned through experience—things that aren’t found in any textbook. Rather than focusing on the knowledge gap, focus on how you can work together.

Example: A young data analyst might have more cutting-edge knowledge of AI tools, but their supervisor knows how to manage the relationship with key stakeholders. Together, they can harness both knowledge and experience to improve outcomes and strengthen the team's reputation.

The Path Forward: Mutual Respect

At the core of this relationship is mutual respect. Both managers and employees need to understand that their combined strengths make the team stronger. Managers can lean on the technical expertise of their direct reports without feeling threatened, and employees can benefit from the mentorship and guidance that only experience can bring.

When employees and managers trust each other, communicate openly, and understand that both bring unique value, it creates an environment where innovation and success thrive. I’ve seen this firsthand, and I believe it’s a model that can work in any industry.

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In 2024, the dynamics between employees and managers are evolving faster than ever, and there are a few practical aspects worth highlighting that reflect this shift. Here are the trend:-

1. The Rise of Hybrid and Remote Work

One of the biggest changes affecting the employee-manager relationship today is the rise of remote and hybrid work. In a remote setup, employees often have more autonomy, and the ability to independently manage tasks becomes even more critical. For a knowledgeable employee who may know more than their boss, remote work can both amplify their freedom and create more room for initiative.

Practical Tip: If you’re in a remote or hybrid environment and know more than your boss, use this as an opportunity to establish yourself as a self-starter. Take on tasks without being asked, and deliver results that make your manager’s job easier. This way, you avoid the perception of being a “threat” and instead become an indispensable asset.

2. AI and Technology Shifting Skills

In 2024, the advent of AI tools like ChatGPT / Gemini, and automation is reshaping industries, creating a significant knowledge gap between those who adapt to these technologies and those who don’t. Often, younger employees or tech-savvy individuals have a better grasp of these tools, which can create friction if managers are slower to adopt them.

Practical Tip: Rather than showing frustration, offer to train or demonstrate how these tools can benefit the entire team, including your manager. This way, you position yourself as a collaborator rather than a competitor. Managers will appreciate the initiative, and the entire team benefits from the knowledge you bring.

3. Changing Expectations of Leadership

Leadership expectations have changed. Today’s younger generation expects leaders to be more empathetic, transparent, and inclusive. In the past, managers who lacked technical knowledge might have been able to “command and control.” But in 2024, employees are less tolerant of this style. Younger professionals expect managers to be more collaborative and open to learning from them.

Practical Tip: If your boss isn't as collaborative or transparent, you may need to guide them subtly toward this new leadership style. For instance, share insights on leadership trends in a non-confrontational way—perhaps by forwarding articles on empathetic leadership or discussing examples of how collaborative work environments are succeeding in your industry.

4. Faster Job Mobility and Career Progression

Another big trend in 2024 is job mobility—people switch jobs more frequently, and career progression is faster. This creates a situation where you may have less experienced managers overseeing teams of highly skilled employees. Younger employees might find themselves reporting to managers with fewer technical skills, especially if the manager was promoted quickly.

Practical Tip: Recognize that career paths are not linear, and just because your boss has fewer technical skills doesn’t mean they lack other valuable leadership qualities. Focus on complementing their strengths. For example, if your manager excels at client relationships or project management but lacks technical skills, work with them to blend both your strengths and enhance overall team performance.

5. The Global Workplace and Cultural Sensitivity

The workforce is more globalized than ever, and it’s not uncommon for employees to work in multicultural teams. This adds another layer of complexity to the employee-manager dynamic. Managers from different cultural backgrounds may approach leadership and knowledge-sharing differently, leading to potential misunderstandings.

Practical Tip: Be aware of cultural differences in how knowledge and authority are viewed. In some cultures, openly correcting or outshining your boss could be considered disrespectful, while in others, it may be seen as a healthy exchange. Tailor your approach depending on the cultural norms of your team and company.

Conclusion

The world of work in 2024 requires both employees and managers to be more adaptable, empathetic, and open to continuous learning. The knowledge gap between generations is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to create friction. Instead, it can be leveraged for mutual success, as long as there’s mutual respect and a willingness to collaborate.

Let me know your comments, views? 

Karthik

17th Sep 2024, 12 Noon. 

Outlive: A Revolutionary Guide to Living Longer and Better

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Outlive by Peter Attia is one of those rare books that comes along and completely changes the way we think about health, longevity, and the future of medicine. This is not just another health and wellness book filled with generic advice; it is a deep dive into the flaws of today’s medical system—what Attia calls Medicine 2.0—and how we can move toward Medicine 3.0, a proactive and preventive approach that can transform the way we live and age.

Attia’s approach is refreshingly different. He breaks down four major killers—diabetes, cardiac issues, Alzheimer’s, and cancer—and explores how Medicine 3.0 can address each by focusing on optimizing health before problems arise, rather than merely reacting when they do. This proactive management appears simple, practical and easy to do. What it requires is the patient's determination. 

Key Principles: Addressing the Major Killers

Attia is meticulous in explaining how we can work to avoid the most common diseases through:

• Nutritional strategy: A focus on nutrient-dense, whole foods and the dangers of processed foods. He explains how our modern diet is not just a factor in diabetes but also contributes to heart disease, cognitive decline, and even cancer.
• Exercise: Not just any exercise but a balanced regimen that includes strength training, aerobic work, and flexibility. He points to studies that show how regular exercise can drastically reduce the risks of many chronic diseases. I was intrigued by Zone 1 to Zone 6 classifications in excercise. Also revealing was the V-O2 (Max) which I scan in my Iphone Health app but never dwelled deep to know it's significance. ( I am in above average category in buring Oxygen,@ my energy levels for my age!). 
• Sleep: Attia underscores the importance of sleep, calling it the 'Swiss Army knife of health.' He provides practical strategies for improving sleep quality, which, in turn, improves overall health. My sleep index score is also decent but can improve. (Oh yes medicines I take have their own story!). I follow religiously follow, same time to bed, No screen 2 hrs prior, dark room, comfortable bed, No devices anywhere 10 feet near to distract. 
• Mental health: What sets Outlive apart is Attia’s personal vulnerability in discussing mental health. He openly shares how therapy and emotional support helped him address his shortcomings as a father and human being. This emotional health component is often overlooked in traditional medicine, but Attia shows how crucial it is to long-term health. Mindfulness, Deep Breath excercise, Visualisation are the key. 

Medicine 3.0: A Paradigm Shift

One of the core arguments in Outlive is that current medical practices (Medicine 2.0) are focused on treating disease once it appears, often too late to make a meaningful impact. Medicine 3.0 shifts the focus to prevention and proactive care, utilizing biomarkers to predict and mitigate future risks. These biomarkers, as you noted, don’t have to be expensive, and Attia emphasizes tests like fasting insulin, and many other biomarkers, which are crucial in predicting future health outcomes.

It's incredible that tests like these are easily available in places like Bangalore, yet they are underutilized by both patients and physicians. This is where I share Attia's frustration. My recent experiences with few doctors have left me feeling like I’m just a commodity, rushed through a system where patient care is measured in seconds, not in minutes and not willing to listen to me or data that stares at us.

Real-Life Case Studies

Attia also brings his insights to life with real-world patient examples. He shows how even the most advanced diseases can be turned around or managed more effectively with the right strategy. These case studies are not just for inspiration; they provide a roadmap for how Medicine 3.0 can be practically applied in everyday life.

Personal Touch and Emotional Vulnerability

Attia's candor about his personal struggles, particularly with mental health, adds another dimension to this book. His openness about undergoing therapy and how it helped him become a better father is a reminder that even the best medical knowledge needs to be paired with emotional well-being for a truly fulfilling life.

A Call to Action for Doctors in India

This book isn’t just for patients; it’s for doctors too. Especially in India, where I’ve felt more and more that doctors are rushing through patient interactions, this is a much-needed wake-up call. Outlive is a reminder that we deserve more time, care, and attention from our healthcare system. We must move beyond the one-size-fits-all approach and adopt the personalized strategies of Medicine 3.0.

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Why Outlive Matters to You

Outlive isn't just a book—it's a blueprint for taking control of your health and longevity. Attia goes beyond the typical "eat well and exercise" advice by presenting a highly personalized, data-driven approach to health management that anyone can apply. What truly makes this book stand out is how it offers value to different readers in unique ways:

1. For Patients:
   If you've ever felt lost in a healthcare system that treats symptoms rather than the root cause, this book will empower you with knowledge. Attia walks you through practical strategies for early intervention, giving you the tools to outlive the diseases that tend to sneak up on people in their 40s, 50s, and 60s.

2. For Caregivers and Families:
   For those caring for aging parents or loved ones, Outlive offers a roadmap to helping others improve their quality of life. With so many actionable insights—on nutrition, sleep, exercise, and emotional well-being—you'll be better equipped to guide family members through critical lifestyle changes that add both years and vitality to their lives.

3. For Professionals and Executives:
   Attia’s take on optimizing health can be especially valuable for high-stress professionals who often overlook their well-being in the pursuit of career success. By focusing on the four pillars—exercise, nutrition, sleep, and emotional health—this book offers actionable steps to improve not just your physical health but your mental clarity and emotional balance, both of which are essential for sustained success. I was touched by the passenger experience (Friend of Peter) on the miracle on Hudson experience, and how he got a new perspective on life!. 

   
   Miracle on Hudson (New Jersey/NY). 

4. For Doctors and Healthcare Practitioners:
   Indian doctors, in particular, will find this book an eye-opener. Attia’s critical analysis of the traditional reactive approach in Medicine 2.0, and his push toward Medicine 3.0, should resonate with those who want to do more than just 'treat symptoms.' It advocates a much-needed shift to personalized, preventive care and is essential reading for anyone who wants to be at the forefront of modern medicine.

5. For Health-Conscious Individuals:
   If you're already proactive about your health, Outlive is the perfect companion to help refine your approach. From interpreting key biomarkers like fasting insulin to understanding the deeper implications of sleep and stress management, this book elevates your knowledge and provides practical steps to safeguard your future health.

Final Thoughts

The true value of Outlive lies in how applicable its principles are to everyday life. Whether you're trying to manage a chronic illness, optimize your health for longevity, or simply become more informed, this book is a must-read. Attia’s approachable style, combined with a wealth of scientific evidence and personal anecdotes, makes this a deeply relatable guide for anyone looking to live a longer, healthier life.

Reading Outlive will help you navigate the confusing world of modern medicine and take back control of your health. This is not just a book; it’s an investment in your future. Everyone, from common people to medical professionals, stands to gain from Attia's wisdom. And in a world where we are often rushed through doctor visits with little time for real dialogue, Outlive gives us the knowledge to ask better questions, seek better care, and ultimately, live better lives. 

Conclusion:

Whether you are battling chronic illness or just looking to extend your lifespan in a healthy, meaningful way, Outlive is a must-read. Attia blends cutting-edge science, practical advice, and personal stories to make this one of the most important health books of our time. And if you're a doctor or healthcare provider, this book is absolutely essential—especially in a world where patient care seems to be increasingly transactional.

Karthik

14th Sep 2024. 9am.

Steel Cage Death Match: Last Man Standing in the World of Layoffs

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Context:- Layoff/ Retrenchment are now order of the day. I read Samsung India has plans to let go 1500 Tech People or so. That triggered my memories back to 2008-10 financial crisis and the tough time we all had. Hence this post. 

In today’s unpredictable world, layoffs have become a brutal reality. Poor leadership, irrational growth strategies, and short-sighted decisions lead to overstaffing, and when it’s time to cut costs, the axe inevitably falls. As someone who has faced this harsh reality head-on during the 2007-09 financial crisis, I can say one thing with certainty: surviving a layoff is less about luck and more about strategy.

Let me take you back to those days when my business was down by a staggering 74%. In most cases, layoffs start when there’s just a 5% downturn. So, you can imagine the bloodbath we faced. The lessons I learned during that time not only helped me survive the crisis but also gave me the resilience to quit corporate life and strike out on my own three years later. Here's what I did, and what I recommend if you're in the "steel cage" of today's cutthroat corporate world, where very few emerge unscathed.

1) Stand and Deliver Results, Every Single Time

When layoffs are looming, it’s not enough to simply meet expectations—you need to exceed them. Deliver your projects ahead of schedule and under budget. Make yourself indispensable by being the person who consistently produces results, even when everything else is falling apart. The last man standing is often the one who has proven themselves time and time again, without fail.

In 2008, I remember working 100-hour weeks, but it wasn’t just about clocking hours. I knew I had to show tangible outcomes to protect my position, which is how we were able to withstand the worst of the crisis. It was a grind, but the rewards were clear: I survived when many others didn’t.

2) Keep an Ear to the Ground

Knowledge is power, especially in uncertain times. Develop relationships with decision-makers and stay plugged into what’s happening at the top. This isn’t about office politics; it’s about being in the know and building trust with those who have the power to make decisions. Trading favors and developing those connections may not save you forever, but it gives you a better shot when layoffs start.

My network, built over years of genuine relationships, kept me informed of what was coming. I wasn’t blindsided, and that made all the difference. This foresight allowed me to position myself better in the organization, knowing when to ramp up my efforts and when to start seeking alternatives.

3) Build Up Skills—On the Company’s D(T)ime

When business takes a nosedive, it’s no secret that people start looking for greener pastures. This is also the perfect time to build up your skills. Take advantage of every training opportunity, certification, or project that enhances your marketability. No one will begrudge you for upskilling when times are tough. Plus, as you deliver results, you’re also positioning yourself for better opportunities elsewhere.

During the downturn, I aggressively pursued skill development. By the time things started improving, I had amassed enough expertise to be valuable, whether inside the company or beyond. That’s also when I began planning my exit from corporate life. I didn't just survive; I used the downtime to prepare for my next leap.

4) Cut the Splurge and Build a Cushion

Financial discipline is critical. When layoffs start, one of the worst things that can happen is being financially unprepared. Aim to save at least six months of take-home pay to tide you over if the worst happens. This gives you breathing space to assess your options without panicking.

Personally, cutting non-essential expenses gave me the flexibility to manage my life when the situation was grim. Even though I did well enough to dodge the layoff bullet, knowing I had that financial cushion brought peace of mind that allowed me to focus on delivering results and staying ahead.

5) Get the Family Onboard

Your career is important, but so is your family. Keep them in the loop, but only as much as necessary. Panic or anxiety at home can spill over into your work life. Having your family’s support, and preparing them for any possible transitions, will help reduce stress. My family knew enough to understand the stakes, and their support made it easier to navigate those tough times.

6) Stay Resilient, But Be Ready for Change

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, you can’t control the outcome. That’s when resilience becomes your best ally. My journey through the financial crisis prepared me to quit corporate life altogether and start my own venture. Not everyone will take the same path, but being mentally and emotionally prepared for change can be a lifesaver.

If layoffs do happen, take it as a signal to reflect, regroup, and come back stronger. In 2012, I was able to walk away from the corporate world, not because I had to, but because I was ready.

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Conclusion

In the steel cage death match of corporate layoffs, the last man standing isn’t just lucky—it’s the person who stands tall, delivers results, builds relationships, keeps learning, and prepares for the worst. Surviving a layoff is part preparation, part execution, and part resilience.

We’ve all seen colleagues, friends, and family members who’ve been caught in the crossfire of poor management decisions and irrational exuberance over growth. But you don’t have to be a victim of circumstance. Immunize yourself by standing out, staying informed, saving smartly, and, most importantly, being resilient in the face of uncertainty.

In the end, survival isn’t just about being the best; it’s about being ready when the inevitable comes knocking.

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Real Life cases:- (People who relished adversity, but stand and delivered!).

1) Satya Nadella (Microsoft)

Before becoming Microsoft’s CEO, Satya Nadella navigated several waves of layoffs, particularly during the company's transition in the late 2000s. Microsoft faced massive restructuring as it struggled to catch up in the mobile and cloud space. Nadella, who was in charge of cloud and enterprise services, stood out by delivering results, driving key initiatives, and adapting to market changes, which ultimately set him up for leadership despite turmoil in the tech industry. His journey is a testament to resilience, adaptability, and delivering results when times are tough.

2) Sundar Pichai (Google)

Sundar Pichai’s rise to the CEO of Google happened amidst a tumultuous period for the company, especially with the growth of mobile technology and stiff competition from Apple and Facebook. Despite Google facing slowdowns in various ventures, Pichai delivered innovation by spearheading projects like Google Chrome and Google Apps, which became game-changers. His ability to focus on long-term solutions and adapt during times of challenge helped him rise through the ranks when many were struggling.

3) Airbnb Layoffs During the COVID-19 Pandemic

When the COVID-19 pandemic hit, Airbnb had to lay off about 25% of its workforce. Yet, CEO Brian Chesky made the process more humane by offering severance packages, health insurance, and even support in finding new jobs for those laid off. What stands out is how some employees were able to pivot their careers during this time. Many who were part of Airbnb’s core teams found freelance or consulting gigs, leveraging their networks and specialized skills to land on their feet even as the company contracted.

4) Vishal Sikka (Infosys)

At Infosys, Vishal Sikka faced immense pressure when the company was undergoing structural changes to adapt to the cloud and AI-driven services. Amid layoffs, he championed automation and AI development, which helped retain his position during tough times. However, his tenure was also marked by corporate infighting, which led to his resignation. Sikka's case highlights how internal politics and pressure can shape career outcomes despite your performance—making networking and managing relationships as crucial as delivering results.

5) My Own Story: Furloughs and Zero Travel

To add a personal touch, I remember when I faced furloughs and travel restrictions for 17 months (2008)during the downturn, even though global travel made up 80% of my core work. With no travel, I had to find alternate ways to deliver results, whether through virtual meetings, remote collaborations, or creative problem-solving. It wasn’t easy, but it was possible because I focused on solutions rather than limitations. The lesson here is that when one door closes, you have to find another way in. That makes you tough, bring it on!!

Karthik

Friday the 13th, (!!) 2024. 

9am. 

Western Management Practices: Lessons for Indian Managers from the Global Corporate World

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In my 30 years of corporate experience, working with multinational companies across continents, I’ve had the opportunity to witness firsthand how Western management principles have shaped high-performance organizations. These practices are not just about operational efficiency; they are about creating an organizational culture where individuals thrive, teams collaborate effectively, and long-term success is built on a foundation of trust and empowerment.

While the Indian corporate landscape is evolving, there are several Western management concepts that, if embraced, could significantly enhance the way Indian managers lead and Indian organizations operate. Here are a few principles that I’ve found to be particularly impactful in my career:

1. Power Distance Reduction: Closing the Gap

One of the most profound differences between Western management styles and traditional Indian practices is the concept of power distance. In many Indian organizations, hierarchy is deeply ingrained, and decision-making is often concentrated at the top. Employees are conditioned to respect authority without question, and communication tends to flow in a one-way direction—from the top down.

In contrast, successful Western companies have embraced flatter organizational structures where hierarchy is minimized, and employees at all levels are encouraged to voice their opinions, challenge ideas, and participate in decision-making. This reduction in power distance fosters innovation, engagement, and a sense of ownership among employees. I’ve personally seen how empowering individuals to question and contribute can lead to breakthrough ideas and solutions that would have otherwise remained untapped.

2. Fostering a Culture of Critical Thinking and Questioning

In many MNCs, asking questions is not seen as a challenge to authority, but as a vital part of problem-solving and innovation. Employees are trained to question processes, assumptions, and results. This “questioning attitude” leads to continuous improvement, as people are constantly looking for ways to optimize and refine.

In India, questioning authority can sometimes be misconstrued as disrespectful. However, cultivating a culture where employees feel safe to ask questions and challenge the status quo can significantly improve problem-solving and innovation. From my own experience, adopting this mindset has allowed me to identify opportunities and address issues more effectively, benefiting both the organization and my personal growth.

3. Analytical Decision-Making: Data Over Gut Feel

Another key management approach in Western organizations is data-driven decision-making. Western managers tend to rely heavily on data, analysis, and research when making critical business decisions. This contrasts with a more traditional Indian approach, where decisions might sometimes be based on gut instinct, personal experience, or hierarchical influence.

Over the years, I’ve learned the power of grounding decisions in data. A thorough analysis of facts and trends not only improves the quality of decisions but also builds credibility with stakeholders. By adopting analytical tools and encouraging teams to base their strategies on well-researched data, Indian managers can significantly enhance decision-making processes. ( I recollect my successful job changes based on data driven decisions despite the offers, that any one else, will blindly join the organisation, I had let go a few). 

4. Transparency and Open Communication

Western organizations tend to operate with a high degree of transparency. Whether it’s sharing financial performance, communicating organizational changes, or discussing failures openly, transparency builds trust. It also ensures that employees understand the bigger picture and how their work contributes to the overall goals of the company. I had extended this to my personal life and I reap immense benefits. 

In India, communication can often be more guarded, with sensitive information restricted to senior leadership. Moving towards a more transparent culture can make employees feel more valued and trusted, thereby improving morale and commitment.

5. Work-Life Balance and Employee Well-Being

In Western management, there is a growing emphasis on work-life balance and employee well-being. Companies in the West often offer flexible work hours, mental health support, and an environment that recognizes the importance of work-life harmony. This shift is designed to not only increase productivity but also retain talent by preventing burnout and fostering a more holistic approach to employee well-being. Oh Yes, the Ultimate perk that No money can buy! 

Indian companies are beginning to explore these concepts, but there’s still a long way to go in terms of genuinely integrating well-being into the workplace. Adopting these practices would not only enhance employee satisfaction but also lead to a more motivated and engaged workforce.

6. Continuous Learning and Skill Development

Western companies often view employee development as an investment rather than a cost. In organizations where I have worked, there has always been a strong focus on continuous learning and development through structured training programs, mentorship, and career coaching. Employees are encouraged to take ownership of their growth by acquiring new skills and knowledge.

In Indian companies, while training is gaining importance, there is often a focus on compliance rather than genuine skill enhancement. Shifting the mindset towards viewing talent development as a strategic advantage could transform Indian organizations into powerhouses of innovation and leadership.

7. Focus on Autonomy and Empowerment

The concept of autonomy is at the heart of many successful Western management practices. Employees are empowered to take ownership of their work, make decisions, and drive results. This creates a strong sense of accountability and fosters a proactive culture where employees are not waiting for orders from above but are taking initiative to achieve goals.

I have seen how giving autonomy, with proper guidance and resources, brings out the best in people. Indian managers could benefit by embracing this mindset, moving away from micromanagement, and trusting their teams to deliver results.

8. One-on-One Discussions: Manager - Direct engagement

One of the most valuable practices I learned from working in Western organizations is the importance of regular one-on-one discussions between leaders and their direct reports. In many multinational companies, these weekly or bi-weekly 30-minute meetings are a standard practice where managers connect with their team members to discuss goals, challenges, and progress.

These sessions go beyond just status updates—they are an opportunity to address any concerns, review performance in real-time, and keep a documented record of ongoing progress. This consistent communication ensures there are no surprises during formal performance reviews, making them more objective and grounded in regular feedback. I’ve benefited immensely from this process. It helped me stay aligned with my manager's expectations, allowed me to resolve issues before they escalated, and ensured that my contributions were fully recognized during performance evaluations.

Indian managers could greatly benefit from adopting this practice. It not only builds stronger relationships with team members but also creates a culture of accountability and trust.

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Conclusion: The Path Forward for Indian Managers

Indian managers and organizations have a wealth of talent and potential, but unlocking this requires a shift in mindset. By adopting these Western management practices—reducing power distance, fostering a questioning culture, embracing data-driven decision-making, and prioritizing transparency, well-being, and continuous learning—Indian businesses can elevate their performance to a global standard.

I’ve been fortunate enough to apply these principles throughout my career, and the results speak for themselves. As the Indian corporate landscape continues to evolve, these Western practices can serve as powerful tools to drive success, innovation, and leadership.

Let me know your thoughts?

Karthik.

12th Sep 2024, 10am.