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Today, January 18, 2026, marks our 35th wedding anniversary—a milestone as enduring and beautiful as the coral and jade that symbolize this special year. On this very day in 1991, as the world watched the start of Operation Desert Storm with bombs falling over Baghdad under President Bush Sr., Lalitha and I quietly entered into our wedlock. While that distant conflict ushered in decades of chaos and turmoil across the globe, our married life has been the very opposite: a steady, peaceful journey filled with mutual respect, growth, and deep joy.
Lalitha, you have been far more than my spouse. You are my closest friend, my wise guide, and the one who always sees the larger perspective in every challenge we face. We don't always agree on every small thing—as individuals, we each bring our own views—but you have an extraordinary ability to focus on the long-term good, gently steering us toward wiser paths. This has taught us both the grace of letting go, moving on from minor conflicts, and adapting together with love. Over the years, that quiet strength has been the true foundation of our harmony.
More than anything, I recognize that our strong bond owes so much to you. In moments when my own missteps or transgressions could have created lasting rifts, you chose understanding over anger. You approached every issue with common sense, a long-term view, and an unshakable belief that time would heal and change things—and it always did. Your patience, forgiveness, and wisdom turned potential storms into calm waters.
Your contributions extend far beyond our partnership. You have been the heart of our extended family, nurturing close ties with my parents, siblings, and relatives. You became the trusted go-to person for resolving issues, always with kindness and fairness. Our children's remarkable success—in education, common sense, and professional growth—is entirely thanks to your dedicated efforts and loving guidance. And now, as a wonderful mother-in-law and a doting grandmother, you continue to bring light and joy to our growing family.
In recent years, with our primary family responsibilities fulfilled, we've finally had precious time just for us. These moments have deepened our understanding of each other, allowing our love to blossom even more fully in this new chapter.
Lalitha, my dearest, I look forward to at least another 20 years—perhaps many more—by your side, cherishing every day, every laugh, and every quiet moment. Thank you for 35 years of unwavering love, strength, and grace. You are the calm in my storm, the wisdom in my world, and the greatest gift of my life.
Happy 35th Anniversary, my love. Here's to many more beautiful years together.
With all my heart, Karthik
Foster City, CA..... 17th January 2026, 1830 Hrs.
(We landed yesterday for our 6 months stay with Radha). Incidentally 17/1/2016 on eve of our 25th Wedding Anniversary, Radha qualified as a Charted Accountant. (Time flies).
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