Reclaiming History and Honoring a Storyteller: A Reflection on Civilization and Frederick Forsyth....

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It was to be a quiet day. Not so, time says. 

The past is a puzzle, and the more I read, the more I realize how little we truly know. Recently, I finished The Dawn of Everything by David Graeber and David Wengrow, a book that turned my understanding of human history upside down. It paints a picture of ancient civilizations—7,000 years ago—that were often more orderly, egalitarian, and sophisticated than we’ve been led to believe. From the planned cities of the Indus Valley to the monumental temples of South India like Tanjore, built around 1010 CE, these societies thrived with ingenuity and balance, often without the rigid hierarchies we assume defined “civilization.” Standing in Rome, marveling at the Pantheon (from 125 CE, not 10,000 years ago as I once miscalculated!), I couldn’t help but compare it to the urban brilliance of Mohenjo-Daro, crafted 4,500 years ago. How did such distant cultures, with no apparent means of communication, arrive at similar systems of governance and architecture? It’s a humbling reminder of humanity’s shared creativity.

Pantheon-Rome. (Every time I saw the monument, my awe went deeper!).

Yet, this awe comes with a bitter truth: the stories of Asian, African, and Latin American civilizations have been overshadowed. Western powers, rising to dominance through exploration, colonization, and industrial might, rewrote history to suit their narrative. They framed their ascent as inevitable “progress,” sidelining the brilliance of older civilizations. The Indus Valley’s drainage systems, Egypt’s pyramids, or the Great Zimbabwe’s stone palaces were downplayed or erased, their artifacts looted and displayed in Western museums. Colonial powers exploited internal divisions—warring kingdoms in India or rival tribes in Africa—to conquer and control. The printing press, gunpowder, and disease gave them an edge, but their real weapon was storytelling: they controlled the global narrative through education, media, and rewritten histories.

This manipulation wasn’t just accepted; it was enabled by the chaos of the time. Fragmented societies, like post-Mughal India or pre-colonial Africa, couldn’t unite against the onslaught. Priceless records—Mayan codices, African oral traditions—were destroyed, leaving gaps that are hard to fill. Today, there’s a growing push to reclaim these narratives. Scholars and activists are unearthing archaeological evidence, amplifying oral histories, and demanding the return of looted artifacts. But it’s a long road. Internal divisions still linger, and the West’s grip on global media remains tight. As I’ve learned, history doesn’t fill stomachs, but it shapes identity and dignity—fuel for a future where these voices can rise.

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This reflection feels even more poignant as I mourn the loss of Frederick Forsyth, the master storyteller who passed away yesterday, June 9, 2025, at 86. Forsyth’s thrillers, like The Day of the Jackal, The Odessa File, The Dogs of War, and The Fist of God, weren’t just page-turners; they were windows into the murky world of power, deception, and hidden truths. His meticulous research and cold precision, as one fan put it, made his stories feel like “operations on the page.” The Day of the Jackal is a masterpiece of suspense, but for me, The Odessa File—with its hunt for a Nazi war criminal shielded by a shadowy organization—mirrors the struggle to uncover buried histories. The Dogs of War exposes the greed behind colonial exploitation in Africa, echoing how resources like platinum or diamonds fueled Western dominance. And The Fist of God, with its cunning Israeli agent posing as an Iraqi minister, captures the kind of subterfuge that reshaped global narratives during the Gulf War.

Forsyth, a former RAF pilot and journalist who covered the Biafran War, knew how history could be manipulated. His novels, selling over 75 million copies, blended fact and fiction to challenge official stories. In The Odessa File, the pursuit of justice against a Nazi network reflects the fight to restore erased truths. In The Dogs of War, mercenaries topple an African regime for profit, a stark reminder of how colonial powers exploited divisions. Forsyth’s work reminds us that history isn’t just what happened—it’s what we’re told happened.

As I reflect on ancient civilizations and Forsyth’s legacy, I see a common thread: the power of narrative. Whether it’s the West rewriting the past or Forsyth crafting a thriller, stories shape our world. Reclaiming the glory of Asian, African, and Latin American civilizations is a battle worth fighting, but it’s not just about correcting history—it’s about moving forward with pride. Forsyth’s tales of intrigue inspire us to question, dig deeper, and tell our own stories. Here’s to honoring the past and writing a future where every voice is heard.

Karthik

10th June 2025. (Anusham-2025).

9am.

Paramacharya Portrait at Gayathri Niwas,Karaikudi. 42 years completed.

Navigating Life’s Storms: Gratitude and Resilience in an Uncertain World...

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Life has a way of reminding us how fragile our plans can be. A dear friend recently shared a story that stopped me in my tracks. He rents out his apartment in Bombay to a hardworking couple, both in their 40s, employed at reputable companies, and always prompt with their rent. They seemed to have it all together—stable careers, a comfortable life. Then, out of nowhere, the husband was diagnosed with a severe eye condition that left him nearly blind, stripping away his ability to earn. As if that wasn’t enough, the wife, who earned even more at a globally renowned firm, lost her job to automation driven by artificial intelligence. In a matter of weeks, their world turned upside down. They gave notice to vacate the apartment, facing an uncertain future with dwindling resources. Yet, in a heartening update, I learned they’re not alone—a network of supportive friends and family is rallying around them, and they’re relocating to a lower-cost area to rebuild their lives.

This story isn’t just about one couple—it’s a stark reminder that trouble often comes in waves, catching even the most prepared off guard. In 2025, stories like these are becoming all too common. Advances in AI, unpredictable health crises, and economic shifts are reshaping lives overnight. Social media and instant communication amplify these narratives, making us hyper-aware of the vulnerabilities we all share. Yet, amidst this uncertainty, there’s hope: the power of gratitude, community, and proactive resilience. Here’s why embracing these can help us navigate life’s storms and what families can do to prepare for unexpected turns.

The Power of Gratitude in an Uncertain World

When I heard about this couple’s plight, my first thought was how easily it could be any of us. I’m in the same boat—aren’t we all?—vulnerable to health scares, job losses, or other unforeseen challenges. It’s humbling to realize how much we take for granted: a steady paycheck, good health, a roof over our heads. Practicing gratitude doesn’t erase life’s uncertainties, but it grounds us. It reminds us to savor the present, to cherish the good days, and to build happy memories that sustain us through tough times.

Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good buzzword; it’s a mindset that fosters resilience. Studies show that people who regularly practice gratitude experience lower stress levels and better mental health, which can be a lifeline when crises hit. For me, it’s about waking up each day and appreciating what’s working—my health, my loved ones, the small joys like a morning coffee or a sunset walk. This perspective doesn’t prevent bad things from happening, but it equips us to face them with a clearer mind and a stronger heart.

Building Resilience: Practical Steps for Families

While we can’t control everything, we can take steps to inoculate our families against life’s unpredictability. The couple’s story, with their community support and strategic move, highlights how proactive measures can light the way forward. Here are practical ways to build a buffer against unexpected challenges, inspired by the realities of 2025:

1. Diversify Income Streams

The wife in this couple’s story lost her job to AI, a growing trend as companies automate roles to cut costs. Relying on a single income source is riskier than ever. Families can explore side hustles, freelance work, or small business ventures to create multiple income streams. For example:

• Upskill Regularly: Learn skills less likely to be automated, like creative problem-solving, caregiving, or niche technical expertise. Online platforms like Coursera or Udemy offer affordable courses.

• Passive Income: Consider investments like rental properties (if feasible) or dividend-paying stocks, though always consult a financial advisor to assess risks.

• Gig Economy: Platforms like Upwork or Fiverr allow professionals to monetize skills like writing, design, or consulting.

2. Build an Emergency Fund

An emergency fund is a financial safety net for health crises, job loss, or other shocks. Aim to save 6–12 months of living expenses in a liquid account. Start small:

• Automate Savings: Set up monthly transfers to a dedicated savings account, even if it’s just a small amount.

• Cut Non-Essentials: Review subscriptions or discretionary spending to redirect funds to savings.

• Side Income to Savings: Funnel earnings from side hustles directly into your emergency fund to accelerate growth.

3. Invest in Health and Wellness

The husband’s sudden blindness underscores how health can change in an instant. Prioritizing wellness can reduce risks and improve outcomes:

• Regular Checkups: Schedule annual health screenings to catch issues early, especially for eyes, heart, and chronic conditions.

• Healthy Habits: A balanced diet, regular exercise, and stress management (like meditation or yoga) bolster physical and mental resilience.

• Insurance: Ensure comprehensive health and disability insurance to cover unexpected medical costs. Review policies to confirm adequate coverage.

4. Strengthen Your Support Network

The couple’s friends and family stepping in is a testament to the power of community. Cultivate relationships to create a safety net:

• Open Communication: Discuss financial and emotional challenges with loved ones to share burdens and solutions.

• Community Resources: Research local NGOs, support groups, or government programs that offer aid during crises (e.g., job retraining programs or medical assistance in India).

• Professional Networks: Maintain connections with colleagues and industry peers for job opportunities or referrals if employment is disrupted.

5. Plan for Relocation Flexibility

The couple’s move to a lower-cost area is a smart strategy to stretch limited resources. Families can prepare by:

• Researching Affordable Areas: Identify regions with lower living costs, better access to healthcare, or job opportunities.

• Temporary Solutions: Explore staying with family or friends as a bridge during financial strain.

• Minimalist Mindset: Downsizing possessions or prioritizing needs over wants can ease the transition to a new location.

6. Embrace Lifelong Learning

AI-driven job losses highlight the need to stay adaptable. Encourage family members to:

• Stay Curious: Read about emerging industries like green energy or biotech, which are less likely to be fully automated.

• Cross-Train: If one spouse works in a high-risk role (e.g., data entry), the other can focus on a stable or growing field (e.g., healthcare or education).

• Mindset Shift: View change as an opportunity to pivot rather than a setback.

Living Fully in the Present

The couple in Bombay faced a double blow—health and financial—but their community’s support and their move to a more affordable area offer hope. Their story reminds us to focus on what we can control. We can’t predict the future, but we can live each day with intention. Make time for joy: call a friend, share a meal with family, or pursue a hobby. These moments recharge us for the journey ahead.

In 2025, the world feels more unpredictable than ever. AI is reshaping industries, health crises can strike without warning, and economic pressures are relentless. Yet, by practicing gratitude, leaning on community, and building resilience, we can face these challenges with courage. Let’s be thankful for today’s blessings—health, love, opportunity—and take practical steps to protect our families from tomorrow’s uncertainties.

What’s your story of resilience? How do you stay grounded in an unpredictable world? Share below, and let’s inspire each other to keep moving forward.

Karthik

9th June 2025

10am. 

Red Pill, Blue Pill, Black Pill...! (Boys Are Not Broken: Reclaiming Balance in a Skewed Narrative)

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1997,Lady Hill; Mangalore.....! (Phew!!)..... 

Personal Update:-  Thirty Years in Bangalore: A Journey of Joy and Growth

Today (7th June) marks the beginning of 30th year, of my move to Bangalore & Karnataka—a decision driven by the desire to provide the best education for my children and to be closer to my parents. Back then, the journey from Gujarat was no small feat; a 40-hour train ride to Karaikudi was a testament to our commitment to this new chapter. Looking back, I can say with certainty that it was one of the best decisions of my life, and I’ve never once regretted it.

Coming from Gujarat, the shift in work culture was significant. Yet, Bangalore’s vibrant MNC environment and unparalleled quality of life more than made up for it. This city welcomed us with open arms, offering opportunities, warmth, and a sense of belonging that has only grown stronger over the years.

As I reflect on these three decades, I’m filled with gratitude for Bangalore—its energy, its people, and the life it has enabled us to build. Here’s to this incredible city and all the happy memories we’ve created. Who knows? Maybe in another 20 years, when I’m 82, I’ll look back with even more stories to tell! 

Thank you, Bangalore, for being THE home.

ಬಹುಶಃ ಇನ್ನೊಂದು 20 ವರ್ಷಗಳಲ್ಲಿ, ನನಗೆ 82 ವರ್ಷವಾದಾಗ, ನಾನು ಹೇಳಲು ಇನ್ನೂ ಹೆಚ್ಚಿನ ಕಥೆಗಳೊಂದಿಗೆ ಹಿಂತಿರುಗಿ ನೋಡುತ್ತೇನೆ!  ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು, ಮನೆಗೆ ಬಂದಿದ್ದಕ್ಕಾಗಿ ಧನ್ಯವಾದಗಳು.

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It hit me hard the other day. Dr. Phil’s podcast, “Red Pill, Blue Pill, Black Pill,” laid bare the quiet epidemic spreading across the young male population—especially in the United States, but increasingly visible worldwide, including in India. Boys under 18-21, are feeling isolated, anxious, unmotivated, and worst of all, unloved. They're growing up in a world that seems to view their very identity as a problem to be solved—if not a threat to be neutralised.

The issue is far more complex than hormonal angst or digital addiction. It’s structural, emotional, cultural—and now, as Dr. Phil notes, even political. And this week’s The Economist cover (see image)—a celebratory pink balloon shouting “Phew, it’s a girl!”—adds another sharp edge to this unfolding story. Its subtitle? “The stunning decline of boy preference.” As if boyhood were a liability to be discarded.

The Pill Metaphors: Understanding the Lens

Before going further, a quick primer for those unfamiliar with the "pill" terminology drawn from internet culture and now widely discussed in podcasts, forums, and sociological commentary:

• Red Pill: Originating from The Matrix, taking the red pill means waking up to a "truth" that society allegedly hides—often used in men’s rights circles to highlight perceived injustices against men, such as biased family courts, educational neglect, or societal shaming of masculinity.

• Blue Pill: This is the metaphor for staying within the comfort of mainstream narratives—believing everything is fine, that institutions are neutral, and traditional values no longer apply.

• Black Pill: A dark offshoot of the red pill. It’s the belief that the system is irredeemably rigged, and there’s no hope. It often leads to nihilism, detachment, or in extreme cases, misogyny or incel (involuntary celibate) ideology.

Many boys today, especially in urban settings, drift between these states. Without strong families, mentors, or institutions to guide them, they’re easy prey to extremist ideologies, depression, or withdrawal.

A Society That’s Forgotten Its Sons

It wasn’t always like this. For generations, boys were celebrated and overindulged. But the correction that followed has now become overcorrection. We’ve gone from worrying about female infanticide and educational neglect to ignoring how boys are now:

• Underperforming in school, dropping out at higher rates

• Overrepresented in suicide statistics

• Seen as inherently dangerous or toxic

• Lacking male role models, especially in single-parent households

Even in India, where female child preference has historically lagged, there’s a visible shift in urban, elite, and media circles. More parents are now saying “Phew, it’s a girl!”—not always out of progressive joy but out of fear. Fear that raising a boy is riskier in today’s moral landscape.

Boys Are Not Toxic by Default

The catchphrase "toxic masculinity" has become the new scarlet letter. Yes, harmful behaviours exist—abuse, suppression of emotion, and aggression. But labelling an entire gender or socialisation pattern as toxic only suppresses natural instincts like protectiveness, ambition, and strength—traits that society desperately needs when channelled well.

This narrative is not just unfair—it’s dangerous. It sends boys into shame, withdrawal, and a warped view of the opposite sex. Worse, it discourages girls from seeing boys as allies, friends, and future partners.

The Backlash Is Coming—And It Should

Society is finally waking up. The DEI-industrial complex, extreme woke rhetoric, and one-sided gender narratives are losing traction. As politics shifts, particularly in Western democracies, there’s a growing space for common sense and cultural recalibration. If the pendulum swung too far in one direction, it's now inching back.

But boys can’t wait for a political rescue.

They need parents who support them, schools that engage them, and social spaces that don’t shame them. They need real-world mentors—not just “influencers”—who help them discover meaning, purpose, and emotional depth.

As I reflect on this topic, I remind myself that the Boy vs Girl debate is a false binary. We need both. One doesn’t thrive without the other. Imagine a society where the male-to-female ratio reverses, say 950 boys to 1000 girls—will society cheer then? Or panic?

What Can Be Done?

Here are a few practical ideas, especially for Indian parents and educators:

1. Stop shaming boys for being boys. Guide their energy, don’t suppress it.

2. Promote male role models in classrooms and homes—not just fathers but uncles, coaches, teachers.

3. Teach boys emotional expression without belittling their masculinity.

4. Help girls see boys as collaborators, not rivals or oppressors.

5. Encourage mixed-gender friendships in childhood and adolescence.

6. Push back against one-sided narratives in media and education.

Final Thought

In Tamil, we say “aan aanaiyil, penn pennaiyil”—a man in his masculinity, a woman in her femininity. Both are sacred, both are needed. It’s time we respected the divine balance instead of demonising one half of it.

Let’s not create a future where our daughters will ask: "Where have all the good men gone?"

Because we forgot to nurture them when it mattered most.

Karthik

7th June 2025 9am. 

East Meets West: Decoding Chinese and Indian Thinking in People and Leadership.

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Context:- Podcasts on Xi JinPing's late father.... Made me ponder a lot and lot and dive deep in to my work experiences! 

Traveling across 30 countries, I’ve seen it all—workplace quirks, cultural clashes, and leadership styles that shape how nations rise or stumble. But nothing stands out more than the stark contrast between Chinese and Indian thinking, with a dash of Western influence for comparison. From the polished streets of Shanghai to the chaotic vibrancy of Bangalore, I’ve coined a phrase back in 2011: “Cunning like Chinese; Crooked like Indians.” It’s a cheeky way to capture the frustrations and fascinations of working in these two powerhouses. But beyond the humor lies a deeper question: what drives these differences in how people and leaders operate, and can India or the West ever match China’s relentless march forward? Let’s dive into the commonalities, differences, and what it all means.

The Common Ground: Pragmatism and Ambition

At their core, Chinese and Indian societies share some surprising similarities, rooted in their histories and aspirations:

• Survival Through Pragmatism: Both nations have faced centuries of hardship—China’s “century of humiliation” and India’s colonial past. This breeds a pragmatic mindset where individuals and leaders prioritize stability and opportunity over ideology. In China, this shows up as loyalty to the system, even when it’s flawed, as seen in Xi Jinping’s rise despite his family’s persecution under Mao. In India, it’s the “jugaad” mentality—improvising to get by, sometimes bending rules to make things work.

• Ambition and Scale: Both countries are driven by a hunger to reclaim global prominence. China’s disciplined, state-led push for economic dominance mirrors India’s chaotic but relentless entrepreneurial spirit. Whether it’s a Chinese tech giant like Huawei or an Indian startup in Bangalore, the goal is clear: rise fast, compete hard.

• Indirect Communication: In both cultures, saying “no” directly is rare. A Chinese colleague might say “we shall see” to avoid conflict, while an Indian might nod and say “we’ll try” to keep things friendly. This can frustrate outsiders expecting clear commitments, leading to what I’ve called “nasty surprises” in workplaces.

The Differences: Order vs. Chaos, Loyalty vs. Critique

While China and India share some traits, their approaches to people and leadership diverge sharply, shaped by culture, history, and systems.

People: Harmony vs. Individuality

• Chinese Collectivism: Chinese culture, rooted in Confucianism, emphasizes harmony, hierarchy, and collective goals. In conversations, I noticed educated Chinese in Shanghai and Guangzhou speak respectfully about leaders like, Chairman Mao, Xi Jinping, even to a foreigner like me. This isn’t just fear of surveillance—it’s a cultural norm to project unity and save face, especially in front of outsiders. At work, this translates to employees agreeing to tasks to please bosses, even if they can’t deliver, leading to perceptions of “cunning” when promises fall through.

• Indian Individuality: India’s diversity—linguistic, religious, regional—fosters a more individualistic, expressive mindset. In India, people openly criticize politicians like Modi in colorful, unfiltered terms, even with foreigners around. This reflects a democratic culture where dissent is a badge of freedom. In workplaces, this can manifest as “crooked” behavior—overpromising to secure a deal or using jugaad to skirt rules, which can feel unreliable to outsiders.

Cultural Nuances

• China’s Face-Saving Culture: Public criticism of leaders or colleagues risks losing face, so issues are often swept under the rug until they become unavoidable. This can feel deceptive but is meant to maintain harmony.

• India’s Open Critique: Indians wear their opinions on their sleeves, with politicians and bosses fair game for mockery. This openness fosters creativity but can lead to distrust when verbal promises don’t match outcomes.

Additional Factors Shaping the Divide

Beyond culture, several factors amplify these differences:

• Historical Context: China’s centralized imperial history and the CCP’s dominance create a unified narrative of national rejuvenation. India’s fragmented history—princely states, colonial rule, and diverse identities—breeds a pluralistic, less cohesive mindset.

• Economic Systems: China’s state-led capitalism allows rapid, coordinated growth (think Belt and Road Initiative), but it demands conformity. India’s market-driven chaos fuels innovation (like its tech startups), but bureaucracy and corruption can slow progress.

• Education and Propaganda: China’s education system embeds Party loyalty, framing the CCP as the nation’s savior. India’s education is diverse and decentralized, encouraging debate but sometimes lacking focus.

• Global Exposure: Urban Chinese are exposed to global ideas but filtered through censorship, reinforcing a cautious worldview. Indians, with freer access to information, embrace global trends but grapple with internal divisions.

Can India and the West Catch Up with China?

China’s edge—its ability to execute at scale, from high-speed rail to AI—comes from its disciplined, top-down system. But does that mean India or the West (like the U.S.) can’t compete? Here’s the breakdown:

• China’s Strengths: Centralized planning, massive investment, and a culture of compliance allow China to move fast. Xi’s vision of “national rejuvenation” aligns leaders and people toward common goals, minimizing internal friction. However, this comes at the cost of innovation stifled by censorship and a lack of dissent to challenge bad ideas.

• India’s Potential: India’s diversity and democratic ethos foster creativity and resilience. Its tech hubs in Bangalore, produce global giants like Infosys, driven by entrepreneurial hustle. But India struggles with infrastructure, red tape, and inconsistent execution, which slow its pace.

• Western Challenges: The West, particularly the U.S., leads in innovation and individual freedom but faces polarization and short-term thinking. Unlike China’s long-term plans, Western democracies shift with elections, disrupting continuity.

• Catching Up?: India and the West can’t (and shouldn’t) copy China’s authoritarian model—it clashes with their values. Instead, they can leverage their strengths:

  • India: Streamline bureaucracy, invest in education, and unify around shared economic goals without sacrificing diversity.  Experience with “jugaad” shows India’s knack for innovation—channeling that into consistent execution for excellence could close the gap.

  • West: Focus on long-term infrastructure and R&D, and bridge political divides to match China’s strategic clarity. See China as big threat to everything. (Russia can wait!)

  • Collaboration: India and the West could partner more, combining India’s cost-effective talent with Western innovation to counter China’s scale.

What Can Be Done About It?

The “cunning” and “crooked” behaviors that are seen aren’t fixed traits—they’re symptoms of systems and cultures. Here’s how to address them:

• In China:

  • Transparency: Encourage clearer communication in workplaces, perhaps through training for global business etiquette. Foreign partners can push for written contracts to reduce ambiguity.

  • Incentivize Trust: Reward reliability over short-term wins, which could shift the “cunning” perception. Global firms working with Chinese suppliers should set realistic timelines and verify progress.

• In India:

  • Professionalize Jugaad: Channel India’s improvisational genius into structured innovation, with better project management to avoid “crooked” surprises.

  • Reduce Bureaucracy: Streamline processes to minimize the need for corner-cutting, building trust with global partners.

• Cross-Cultural Understanding: For foreigners, and people returning to India from overseas for global roles in professional committments, navigating these cultures means learning their cues. In China, treat “maybe” as a polite “no” and push for clarity. In India, double-check verbal commitments with written agreements. Training in cultural intelligence can help avoid those “nasty surprises.”

Leadership: Control vs. Negotiation

• Chinese Centralized Authority: Chinese leaders like Xi Jinping embody top-down control, a trait rooted in the Communist Party’s structure. A new book, The Party’s Interests Come First: The Life of Xi Zhongxun, Father of Xi Jinping by Joseph Torigian (released June 3, 2025), sheds light on this mindset. Xi Zhongxun, Xi Jinping’s father, faced persecution under Mao—imprisoned and humiliated—yet remained loyal to the CCP, a value passed down to his son. Xi Jinping’s own hardships, like living in a cave during the Cultural Revolution and losing his sister to possible suicide, didn’t break his faith in the Party. This reflects the Chinese cultural norm of prioritizing collective stability over personal grievances, which I saw in how professionals in Shanghai and Guangzhou spoke respectfully of leaders, even to a foreigner like me. In workplaces, this translates to a disciplined but opaque environment, where managers expect deference, and the “cunning” I noticed comes from face-saving rather than outright deceit.

• Indian Democratic Negotiation: Indian leaders, by contrast, operate in a messy democracy, juggling diverse interests. Politicians like Modi face open, often scathing criticism, as I’ve seen firsthand—Indians don’t hold back, even with foreigners around. This reflects a culture where dissent is a badge of freedom, unlike Xi’s tightly controlled system. In workplaces, Indian leaders and employees negotiate constantly, leading to a looser hierarchy where commitments can shift, contributing to the “crooked” surprises I’ve encountered. While Xi’s leadership, shaped by his father’s legacy, focuses on Party unity, Indian leaders navigate a fragmented landscape, prioritizing adaptability over control.

Final Thoughts

China’s disciplined collectivism and India’s chaotic individualism each have strengths and flaws. China’s thinking—rooted in harmony and control—gives it a lead in execution but risks stifling creativity. India’s open, critical mindset fuels innovation but struggles with consistency. The West sits somewhere in between, with freedom but fractured focus. Neither India nor the West needs to become China to compete—they need to play to their strengths, streamline their systems, and learn from each other. As for me, I’ll keep chuckling at the “cunning” and “crooked” moments, knowing they’re just part of the global dance of getting things done.

What’s your take? Have you seen these differences play out in your travels? Drop a comment and let’s keep the conversation going!

Karthik

6/6/26 9am. 

A Crusader for Healthier Eating – Revant Himatsingka, the Food Pharmer

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Context: Truth be told, I never bothered to check labels, until I went shopping, a few times, with my son-in-law, Eshwar. Then life changed.  (Knowing -Doing Gap- I knew things, but never did; the symbol of Mediocre people!). 

Introduction

Imagine picking up a pack of your favorite snack, believing it’s healthy because the label says so, only to find out it’s loaded with sugar or harmful additives. This is the reality Revant Himatsingka, known as Food Pharmer, is fighting against. A former corporate professional with an MBA from Wharton, Revant left a high-paying job in the US to educate people about the truth behind packaged foods. His mission? To make us rethink what we eat and question the misleading claims of big food companies.

Who is Revant Himatsingka?

Revant Himatsingka, popularly called Food Pharmer, is a certified health coach from Kolkata who has taken social media by storm. His journey began with a viral video in 2023, where he exposed the high sugar content in a popular children’s health drink. That video, which reached over 12 million people, sparked a movement and even led to regulatory changes! Despite facing legal notices from giant food companies, Revant continues to call out misleading labels and unhealthy ingredients with a mix of humor and hard-hitting facts.

His nickname, Food Pharmer, is a clever blend of “food” and “pharma,” reflecting his belief that food is medicine. With over 2.8 million Instagram followers and 1 million YouTube subscribers, he’s become a trusted voice for millions, encouraging everyone to read food labels carefully before buying anything.

His Crusade Against Misleading Food Practices

Revant’s work focuses on exposing the tricks food companies use to make their products seem healthy. He’s taken on global giants, pointing out issues like:

• High sugar content in products marketed as “healthy,” like energy drinks and children’s snacks.

• Misleading labels that claim “no added sugar” or “natural” but hide harmful additives. Badam milk is badam flavored essence. So called Cashew Biscuit is .001% Cashew in Maida baked rubbish. 

• Unhealthy ingredients like palm oil, artificial colors, and refined flour in everyday foods like bread and chips.

His videos are simple yet powerful. He breaks down ingredient lists, explains what they mean, and shows why many packaged foods aren’t as good for us as we think. For example, he’s highlighted how some products use green packaging to seem “natural” when they’re anything but. His efforts have led to real change—some companies have reduced sugar in their products, and others have been forced to drop false “health drink” claims.

The ‘Label Padhega India’ Movement

One of Revant’s biggest contributions is his “Label Padhega India” campaign, which encourages everyone to check food labels before buying. He believes that if we all start reading labels, companies will have no choice but to make healthier products. This movement has been supported by celebrities, doctors, and even schools, where “Sugar Boards” are now used to teach kids about the risks of too much sugar. Revant’s goal is to make health literacy a part of every school’s curriculum, just like math or science.

Food Pharmer 2.0: From Awareness to Action

Revant isn’t just pointing out problems—he’s offering solutions. In 2025, he launched his own brand, Only What’s Needed (OWN), to create clean-label foods with simple, healthy ingredients. His first product, whey protein, was co-created with input from his followers, ensuring it’s free of unnecessary additives. He’s also introduced a “Food Pharmer Approved” certification to highlight authentic, healthy products, from packaged foods to restaurants.

Unlike most companies that spend heavily on ads, Revant cuts marketing costs to keep his products affordable. His dream is to build the world’s most transparent food company, where every ingredient is clearly explained, and consumers can trust what they’re buying.

Challenges and Courage

Revant’s journey hasn’t been easy. He’s faced multiple lawsuits from big food companies trying to silence him. After his viral video, one company forced him to take it down and issue an apology, but the public’s support kept him going. He’s also dealt with personal struggles, like burning through his savings and facing family pressure to get a “proper job.” Despite this, Revant remains committed, saying, “I’m fine making mistakes, but I don’t want to regret not trying hard enough.”

Why Food Pharmer Matters

Revant’s work is a wake-up call for all of us. In a world where packaged foods dominate our diets, his message is clear: don’t trust the front of the pack—read the back. His humor and relatable style make complex nutrition facts easy to understand, empowering us to make better choices. He’s not just an influencer; he’s a changemaker who’s inspiring a healthier future.

Other Indian Consumer Advocates

Revant isn’t alone in standing up for Indian consumers. Here are a few others making a difference:

• Pushpa Girimaji: A veteran consumer rights journalist who has been writing about consumer issues for decades, helping people understand their rights and fight unfair practices.

• Bejon Misra: Founder of the Consumer Voice Foundation, he works to protect consumers from unsafe products and misleading ads through advocacy and awareness.

• Nidhi Khare: As a senior official in the Consumer Affairs Ministry, she pushes for stronger regulations to ensure fair practices in the food and beverage industry.

Revant Himatsingka, the Food Pharmer, is proof that one person can make a big impact. By exposing the truth about packaged foods and starting a movement for health literacy, he’s helping us take control of our health. His courage to stand up to powerful companies and his commitment to offering healthier alternatives make him a true hero for our times. So, next time you pick up a snack, remember Revant’s advice: read the label, know what’s inside, and choose wisely.

Would you do? 

Karthik

5/6/25 930am. 

What If Moments: Reflections on Missed Chances....

 #667

Aigaa:- I thought I lost it(Print those days!- Funny,I had taken a snap of print, found it now!).

WTC View from New Jersey Side. 

Life is full of "what if" moments—those fleeting decisions that, in hindsight, carry a weight we couldn’t have imagined at the time. On May 11, 2001, I stood in front of the iconic World Trade Center towers in New York City, their towering presence dominating the skyline behind me. I was with my cousin, a New York/New Jersey resident, who knew the city like the back of his hand. It was nearing lunchtime, and he suggested we grab a bite instead of heading up to the WTC’s observation deck for a panoramic view of NYC.

The decision seemed so small then. We ate, laughed, and afterward, chose to visit the Empire State Building instead. My cousin assured me, “We’ll make it to the WTC on your next visit.” But that next visit never came. Just four months later, on September 11, the towers were gone, and with them, the chance to stand atop them and take in the city from that vantage point. In the years since, I’ve returned to NYC several times, but I’ve never found the time to visit the new One WTC tower that now stands in its place. Maybe one day I’ll complete that visit—but for now, it remains a haunting “what if.”

Another moment that lingers in my mind takes me to Lahore, a city I’ve visited multiple times. I was unaware, until much later, that Bhagat Singh, the revolutionary freedom fighter, was hanged there in 1931 at Lahore Prison. I never made it to see the site, a place of such historical significance. Now, with the complexities of travel and time, visiting feels like a tough task. What if I had known earlier? What if I had made the effort to go? These missed opportunities weigh on me, not with regret, but with a quiet reflection on how life’s choices unfold.

These “what if” moments remind me how fragile and unpredictable life can be. A simple choice to eat lunch instead of ascending the WTC, or a lack of awareness about a historical site in Lahore, became defining memories—not for what I did, but for what I didn’t. They’re a reminder to seize the day, to be present, and to seek out the experiences that matter. Maybe one day I’ll stand at One WTC, or find a way to visit Lahore Prison, and complete these unfinished chapters. Until then, I hold onto the lessons they’ve taught me about life’s fleeting chances.

What are your missed "What IF"!!! 

Karthik.

3rd June 2025 1130am. 

Trump's Tightrope: Navigating Global Chaos and Domestic Demands. Shun "TACO" Label.

 #666

Omen (666) SATAN !!! 

Donald Trump’s return to the White House has thrust him into a geopolitical maelstrom, with his cabinet and advisors pulling him in conflicting directions on foreign policy while domestic challenges demand his attention. From Ukraine to Iran, Israel to the Houthi rebels, and the delicate dance with Russia and China, Trump faces a conundrum: how to assert a clear, America-first agenda without being ensnared by the military-industrial complex or domestic political traps. For an international audience watching closely, here’s a look at the complexities Trump must navigate and the bold path he could carve to shed the lingering “TACO” (Trump Always Chickens Out) label.

The Global Tug-of-War

Ukraine: Not America’s Fight

Trump has made it clear that Ukraine’s conflict is not his war. Stepping back from this quagmire is a priority, as he sees little benefit in pouring American resources into a European-led issue. However, the war lobby in Washington—backed by influential figures like Senators Lindsey Graham and others—poses a real threat. With 81 senators reportedly swayed by defense contractors, the specter of impeachment looms if Trump moves too swiftly to disengage. For Trump, the solution lies in a clear exit strategy: reduce aid, push for negotiations, and let Europe shoulder the burden. This stance resonates with his base, who see Ukraine as a drain on American taxpayers, but it risks alienating NATO allies already skeptical of his commitment.

Iran: A Russian Guarantee

On Iran, Trump faces pressure to curb its nuclear ambitions without escalating into another costly Middle East conflict. His cabinet is split, with hawks pushing for confrontation and pragmatists urging diplomacy. A potential solution? Enlist Russia as a guarantor to ensure Iran halts nuclear processing. This move would leverage Russia’s regional influence, reduce U.S. military involvement, and signal Trump’s preference for deal-making over saber-rattling. For the international community, this could stabilize the region, though it risks backlash from Israel and Saudi Arabia, who view Iran as an existential threat.

Israel: A Hands-Off Approach

Trump’s stance on Israel is unequivocal: let them handle Gaza as they see fit. By declaring it “none of America’s business,” he aims to extricate the U.S. from the Israeli-Palestinian conflict’s endless cycle of mediation and criticism. This hands-off policy aligns with his desire to avoid foreign entanglements but could strain relations with allies expecting U.S. diplomatic leadership. Globally, this move may be seen as a retreat from moral responsibility or a pragmatic focus on domestic priorities, depending on the audience.

Houthi Rebels: A Low Priority

The Houthi rebels in Yemen, while a thorn in global shipping lanes, are unlikely to dominate Trump’s agenda. His advisors may push for limited strikes to secure trade routes, but Trump’s instinct is to avoid another Middle East quagmire. Expect minimal U.S. involvement, with Saudi Arabia and regional powers taking the lead—a signal to the world that America’s military will not be the default solution to every crisis.

Russia and China: Trade Over Tensions

Trump’s vision for Russia and China centers on building trade and peace, not confrontation. He sees economic cooperation as a path to stability, a stark contrast to the military-industrial complex’s preference for perpetual rivalry. By assembling a trusted National Security Advisor team, Trump could pursue pragmatic deals—perhaps easing sanctions on Russia in exchange for security guarantees or negotiating tariffs with China to level the trade playing field. This approach could reshape global perceptions of the U.S. as a dealmaker, not a warmonger, but it risks pushback from hawkish advisors and a Congress beholden to defense interests.

The EU: Ending the Free Ride

For 70 years, Trump argues, the European Union has benefited from American largesse—technology transfers, defense spending via NATO, and more—while building welfare states with the savings. His refusal to continue this “free ride” signals a seismic shift. By demanding Europe pay its fair share, Trump aims to redirect resources to domestic priorities. Internationally, this stance may strain transatlantic ties but resonate with audiences frustrated by perceived inequities in global alliances.

China Tariffs: A Double-Edged Sword

Trump’s push for tariffs on China aims to protect American industries but risks retaliation that could harm global trade. His challenge is to balance economic nationalism with the reality of interconnected markets. A clear strategy—targeted tariffs coupled with negotiations—could mitigate blowback while signaling strength to both domestic and international audiences.

The Domestic Imperative

While global issues tug at Trump, his heart lies in domestic reform. He aims to tackle taxes, immigration, and the abolition of birthright citizenship, which he sees as a magnet for illegal immigration. Cracking down on “left-wing lunatic universities” accused of fostering anti-American sentiment is another priority, reflecting his belief that cultural and educational institutions must align with national interests. These issues resonate with his base, who see them as long-overdue corrections to a drifting nation.

Escaping the “TACO” Label

The “Trump Always Chickens Out” tag, whispered by critics, stems from perceptions of indecision or retreat on tough issues. To erase it, Trump must project clarity and strength. By delivering concrete messages—exiting Ukraine swiftly, securing Russia’s role in Iran, giving Israel autonomy, and prioritizing trade with Russia and China—he can redefine his presidency as decisive and pragmatic. Domestically, bold moves on taxes, immigration, and universities will reinforce this image.

A Path Forward

Trump’s conundrum is daunting but navigable. By assembling a trusted advisory team, rejecting the military-industrial complex’s war-driven agenda, and focusing on America-first policies, he can chart a course that avoids global chaos while addressing domestic demands. For the international community, this approach signals a U.S. that prioritizes its own interests but remains open to pragmatic partnerships. The world watches as Trump walks this tightrope—will he balance the pressures or succumb to the pull of entrenched interests? Only time will tell, but a clear, resolute strategy is his best bet to silence doubters and lead with conviction.

Karthik

2nd June 2025

10am. 

55 Years, One Night: Lessons from PSG’s Historic Champions League Triumph........

 #665

What a news to wake up to a Sunday and a new Month. 5-0 was beyond my wildest imagination. My Inbox was flooded with messages from friends who were in different time zones, to update me at 430am. (90 min after waking up, I open my Mac). 

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“Sometimes, a team wins. But on rare nights, a club rewrites its destiny.”

On a stunning European night, Paris Saint-Germain (PSG) demolished Inter Milan 5-0 to lift their first UEFA Champions League trophy in 55 years. By half-time, it was already 2-0. By the end, the last two goals felt like Inter had run out of breath, willpower, and belief. PSG didn’t just win—they overwhelmed.

While fans rejoice and history books get updated, I see something deeper in this moment. For over five decades, PSG chased this elusive prize with stars, strategies, and money. (Qatar/ Qatar Airways their sponsors) But this year, something clicked. The lessons from this historic run go far beyond football. They are universal.

Let’s unpack them.

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1. Star Power ≠ Star Results

PSG once assembled a glittering galaxy—Messi, Neymar, Mbappé, and others—yet the Champions League kept slipping away. Lavish spending bought fame, not fulfilment. This year’s winning squad looked less flashy on paper—but functioned like a team, not a talent show.

Lesson: In life and work, throwing money or picking superstars doesn’t guarantee results. ( I wrote about this in my blog yesterday) Alignment, hunger, and humility matter more than celebrity.

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2. Desperation Can Be a Spark

This PSG side was nearly eliminated in the group stage. At one point, they needed a miracle. That near-exit forced a reckoning. They recalibrated, regrouped, and returned with fury.

Lesson: Adversity can awaken dormant fire. When survival is at stake, people find reserves they didn’t know they had. That’s when transformation begins.

We’ve all had moments when life corners us—emotionally, professionally, or physically. Flight or fight. PSG chose to fight.

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3. Mental Toughness is the Game Changer

Even before the final whistle, the odds were finely balanced—44% in PSG’s favour. But they didn’t play like it. They played like destiny was theirs. That belief was evident in every pass, press, and play.

Lesson: Confidence under pressure is not arrogance. It’s preparation meeting purpose. When you truly believe in your mission, you don’t just show up—you rise.

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4. When the Tide Turns, Go for the Kill

5-0 is likely the widest winning margin in Champions League final history. PSG didn’t settle at 2-0. They smelled blood, pushed harder, and wrote a statement win.

Lesson: When momentum is on your side, don’t slow down out of courtesy or caution. Use that tailwind to set records, define new standards, and make history hard to ignore.

Winners don’t stop at “good enough.” They stretch the gap so wide that it's hard to bridge.

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5. Leadership from the Sidelines Matters

Luis Enrique—World Cup winner, Champions League winner, a seasoned tactician—(2023) brought a calm, composed edge to this squad. His presence was not dramatic, but decisive. Players followed a system, a belief, and a philosophy.

Lesson: A good mentor or coach doesn’t play the game for you. But their presence lifts your ceiling. Whether in business, family, or personal pursuits, choose mentors who’ve walked the path. Their wisdom shortens your learning curve.

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6. Success Breeds Success

This win is more than a trophy. It’s a belief reset for the club. The mental blueprint of winning—how it feels, what it demands, what it creates—now lives in the DNA of PSG. This victory will birth more.

Lesson: The hardest win is the first. After that, the mindset shifts. Winners attract winners. A successful outcome creates new standards of expectation—both inside and outside.

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7. Playing as a Team, Not Just for the Team 

The on-field chemistry was unmistakable. PSG looked like a team of eleven playing with each other, not just for the club. That cohesion isn’t accidental—it’s the result of shared pain, clear roles, and mutual respect.

Lesson: Great results emerge not from individual brilliance alone, but from trust, coordination, and shared ambition. Build systems, not stars.

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8. Rewrite Your Script—Even After 50+ Years

For PSG, this wasn’t just a win—it was a release. A club long branded as flashy but flaky finally rewrote its story. A team mocked for buying greatness earned it instead.

Lesson: It’s never too late to change your label. Whether at 60 or after 55 years, your history doesn’t define your future. One breakthrough can redeem decades of waiting.

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In Closing:
PSG’s victory wasn’t just football—it was theatre, psychology, and human spirit on display. From near-elimination to undisputed domination, they proved what’s possible when belief, leadership, and hunger align.

So next time you feel you’ve waited too long, lost too often, or spent too much—remember PSG. It’s never too late for your moment.

Karthik

1st June 2025

830am. 

Interesting, Paris is one Big City, I have not set foot yet, (Never wanted to, I avoid "CDG" & prefer Basle/ Luxoumberg to land in to France) May be time to go (Put aside 1994 visa Rejection ahhahhah!!) 

Last time I saw Champions league final was when Drogba took the last kick for Chelsea in Penalties, for a 4-3 win. Son a Die Hard Chelsea Fan..!!! 13 years flew!!! (He was getting ready to go to College, then I guess!) It was also "MUNICH"..!